Fires in the Mind: What Kids Can Tell Us About Motivation and Mastery by Kathleen Cushman
For teachers…
I recommend this book because it shows myriad examples from students on what motivates them. For example, here’s a student talking about what makes a teacher good:
“A lot of teachers here treat their class as more of a conversation, rather than a lecture, and I think that really helps to create dialogue. There’s not someone standing up and telling you a right or wrong answer.” – Kristian
Teachers can also check out the website link for ongoing ideas about how to apply these concepts into their classrooms.
For Parents…
If you are a parent, perhaps you could buy a copy of this book for a teacher as a holiday or end of year gift? And, if you are a parent you can check out the website link of this book geared toward parents.
Some great suggestions for parents from this link:
1. Love your children as an end, not a means.
2. View life as resistance training.
3. Stop looking at the scoreboard at the game and start paying attention to practice field.
4. Form in your children an ethical conscience and a conscience of craft.
5. Develop the whole person
Concentrate on seven life skills:
• Communication
• Courtesy
• Taking other perspectives
• Self-control
• Organization
• Time management
• Self-care
I hope Fires in the Mind will help bring teachers and parents together. As a parent I have often found the dialogue between a teacher and parent to be one way, with a teacher telling a parent something (usually rehearsed) instead of really listening to a parent’s concerns. Parents and teachers have to learn how to listen to each other. That’s what we try to teach our children and students, so why not model that as adults?
